It’s Not About You

How to Speak Your Life

It’s not about you (even though it is your life)
You can tell of victories or failures (both can have wisdom)
Think big and small (tell secret stories as well as famous ones)

It isn’t about you. You’re part of the story, but it isn’t your story. Speak to the story of all students. You’re the speaker but you’re not the message. Set your political views aside. Be who you are, but don’t make it about yourself.

Examine how many sentences start with “I.” Look for ways of saying “we.” Watch for words and phrases which divide. Gather, don’t scatter the hearts of your audience.

Administrators: Review student speeches. Have those students commit to that speech. A student (or anyone) who uses a commencement address as a bully pulpit can ruin a beautiful evening.

Keep it positive.